{"id":65,"date":"2015-03-19T13:39:15","date_gmt":"2015-03-19T13:39:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4thwavenow.wordpress.com\/2015\/03\/19\/right-now-but-something-thats-completely"},"modified":"2015-04-15T19:22:00","modified_gmt":"2015-04-15T19:22:00","slug":"right-now-but-something-thats-completely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/2015\/03\/19\/right-now-but-something-thats-completely\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Something that&#8217;s completely reversible is using the name and pronouns that your child wants. Maybe you&#8217;re already doing this, and that&#8217;s great! If not, this would be a good chance for your child to see if it feels right.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A \u201cmale\u201d name is no problem. Wearing\u00a0\u201cmen\u2019s clothes\u201d (I\u2019ve often worn\u00a0\u201cmen\u2019s clothes\u201d my entire adult life, having imbibed in the 70s-80s the then-radical-why-did-we-go-backwards-in-the-2000s idea that a WOman can wear anything she wants) is cool. But the pronoun thing feels like a slippery slope. I don\u2019t think a person with two x chromosomes and a scientifically-verifiable female body is a\u00a0\u201che\u201d or a\u00a0\u201chim.\u201d Transition is a conveyer belt, and certain things (like being called\u00a0\u201che\u201d) seem to me like they would increase dysphoria. Let me say I don\u2019t doubt for a minute that the feeling and idea of dysphoria are real. I don\u2019t question a person\u2019s feelings. What I question is what to DO with that feeling.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Something that&#8217;s completely reversible is using the name and pronouns that your child wants. Maybe you&#8217;re already doing this, and that&#8217;s great! If not, this would be a good chance for your child to see if it feels right. A &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/2015\/03\/19\/right-now-but-something-thats-completely\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[10521385,184826489,11109275],"class_list":["post-65","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-detransition","tag-gender-critical","tag-lesbophobia"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pavRkb-13","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":206,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65\/revisions\/206"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/4thwavenow.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}