The clinic advised that Rudy should start to make his own choices and, specifically, recommended that he was allowed to pick an item of clothing. âHe chose a Disney princess nightie and skipped around the house in it, laughing,â recalls Kathryn. Towards the end of Year 1 at school, Rudy started wearing girlsâ clothes at home. ‘Of course, he chose to dress as a girl. I watched him at the disco, chatting to girls, wearing a pink glittery dress. That was a turning point.’ Back home, Rudy chose a girlâs school uniform for the new term and asked to be called Ruby.
–Parenting a transgender child: The day my four-year-old son told me he was a girl
When Ana was five years old, her mother Cathy organised a birthday party with one rather unusual condition: No girly presents, please. ‘I felt awful doing it, but I knew Ana would be devastated if anything pink or fluffy turned up.’
‘I knew when I was growing up,’ says Alfie now, ‘that I didnât want to do the things that girls did. I was the sort of kid who ran around and got dirty. ⌠People thought me being a tomboy was a phase, but I knew I wouldnât change. I didnât want to wear girl clothes. I hated the way they fitted to me. ⌠I was told I would change and get interested in make-up, but I could never see it happening.’ The paediatrician then brought up the topic of gender transition. So in the car on the way home, I said to mum: âI think Iâm transgender.â
Trans activists and gender specialists donât have much in the way of well controlled, peer-reviewed research to support their core assumption that âgender identityâ is innate and immutable. Some of the latest brain science shows little difference between male and female brains. But leaving that aside, what is the scientific basis for believing there is an innate “gender identity,â baked in at birth, that would justify turning young people into sterilized, permanent medical patients as adults?
Recently, in the activist blogosphere, the transgender press, and on the WPATH Facebook page, there have been excited proclamations that data to prove “true identity” has emerged in the form of a paper published a few months ago in the journal Psychological Science. The study of 32 âtransgenderâ children and the same number of non-trans controls, entitled âGender Cognition in Transgender Children,â [abstract; full study here] was conducted by University of Washington assistant professor of psychology and director of its TransYouth Project Kristina Olson (not to be confused with LA Childrenâs Hospital gender specialist Johanna Olson), along with transgender activist Aidan Key and Stony Brook University assistant professor of psychology Nicholas Eaton.
Iâm going to start with the punch line and work backwards from there: The study demonstrates only that 32 socially transitioned children (that is, kids who are being âsupportedâ by their families and âgender specialistsâ in being referred to by an opposite sex name, pronouns, and presumably, though the authors donât tell us, sporting opposite-sex-stereotyped clothing and hairstyles), really, truly do prefer the playmates, hairstyles, and clothing more typical of the opposite sex. Further, these âtransgender children” really and truly do prefer and âidentify withâ the same playmates and physical attributes as the control group of âcisgenderâ children (yes, the study authors use that term) of the opposite sex.
Who were the âtransgender childrenâ recruited for the study?
To be included in the current study, children had to be 5 to 12 years old and live in all contexts as the gender expression âoppositeâ of their natal sex. These requirements resulted in the exclusion of 4 additional gender-nonconforming participants
And the control group?
Thirty-two control participants (20 female, 12 male; mean age = 9 years) … matched to the transgender participants were recruited through the first authorâs research lab from a database of families interested in participating in developmental psychology research studies. They were required to have no significant history of gender nonconformity.
[Note: A group of âcisgenderâ siblings of the âtransgenderâ children were also part of the study, but time and space in this article do not allow a full analysis of their responses, which were similar to but not the same as the non-familial âcisgenderâ control group.]
What do the authors mean by âgender nonconformingâ or âno significant history of gender nonconformityâ? This is never defined, although we can guess that the âtransgenderâ children dress, play, and appear differently from generally recognized gender stereotypes. But the control group? Do the authors mean these children entirely conformed to stereotypesâi.e., the girls all wore dresses, played with dolls, and had long hair, while the boys played with trucks, had short hair and wore rough-and-tumble  trousers?
Olson et al donât tell us. And what about the four excluded âgender nonconformingâ subjects, who apparently did not âlive in all contextsâ as âoppositeâ to their natal sex? Did these children occasionally indulge in sex-stereotyped play and behaviors, so they werenât âtransâ enough?
The study stimuli consisted of questions coupled with pictures of boys and girls, âmatched for approximate age and attractiveness.â (And what does âattractivenessâ mean? There is an even bigger question vis-Ă -vis these pictures, which I will get to in a few moments).
Olson and colleagues tested the children in 3 areas:
- Gender preference (for play/friendship)
- Object preference (associating a nonsense word with a picture of a boy or girl, saying this was the name of a toy or food that the pictured child was using)
- Gender identity (whether the child feels they are a boy or girl)
Each of these three variables were addressed via explicit (i.e., responses to direct questions)Â and implicit measures.
Whatâs the difference between explicit and implicit measures? In psychology research, it has been posited that âimplicitâ measures
 may resist self-presentational forces that can mask personally or socially undesirable evaluative associations
In other words, implicit measures are meant to get at how someone really thinks and feels, whereas a reliance strictly on explicit âself reportingâ might be tainted by what a subject thinks someone wants to hear (or other motives).
So, for the âgender preferenceâ part of the Olson et al study, the explicit measure was to ask the child, “who would you rather be friends with?” when shown a pair of pictures of a boy and girl. The implicit measure was to show the children pictures of a boy and girl and ask to label them âgoodâ or âbad.â (The underlying premise here is that most pre-pubescent kids prefer their own âgenderâ as playmates).
For gender identity, the implicit measure consisted of asking the research subjects to label pictures of boys and girls as âmeâ or ânot me.â The explicit corollary was
telling them that people have outsides (their physical body) and insides (their feelings, thoughts, and mind). They were told that some people feel like they are boys on the outside, and some feel like they are girls on the outside, and that those people might feel the same way or different on the inside. They were told some people feel, for example, like a boy on the outside and inside, and that others feel like a boy on the outside but a girl on the inside. Further, they were told that some people feel like both or neither, or that their feelings change over time.
Children were asked whether, on the inside, they felt like a boy, a girl, neither, or both; whether their gender identity changed over time; or whether they did not know.
For âobject preferencesâ the authors didn’t assess preference for actual objects, but only whether the research subjects chose the same preferences as pictured boys or girls. They were
shown pairs of photographs of children and told that each one had a preferred toy or food. The names of these items were in fact novel words (e.g., âThis is Amanda and she likes to play flerp. This is Andrew and he likes to play babber.â). Our interest here was whether children would use the gender of the person endorsing the item to inform their own preferences.
Itâs difficult to see how this adds any more information than asking kids what sex playmates they prefer. If a child who “identifies” as a boy sees a picture of a boy playing “babber,” that child would likely prefer to do what the pictured boy is doing.
Be that as it may, what exactly did Olson et al set out to prove with these probes?
⌠if these children are not confused, delayed, or pretending, and in fact their expressed gender represents their true identity, we would expect them to respond  similarly to gender-matched control participants not only on self-report measures, but also on implicit ones.
We reasoned that if children are confused by the particular questions posed to themâŚ.[or] if they are merely self-reporting the âwrongâ gender identity⌠or even if they are just oppositionally reacting to the question of their gender identityâ âŚthese children should show one of two patterns of confusion. First, they could be truly confused, as indicated by random responding and no systematic response across measures and participants. Alternatively, they could implicitly identify as their natal sex (because they actually understand gender and are merely self reporting this âincorrectâ gender).
And the results of the study? Surpriseâthe socially transitioned âtransgenderâ children did indeed respond similarly to the âcisgenderâ control group.
But what does this actually demonstrate?
First, letâs consider the stimuli, consisting of pictures of age-matched boys and girls. What would distinguish a picture of a prepubescent boy from a picture of a prepubescent girl, apart from clothing and hair styles? Not much.
Prior to puberty and the influence of estrogen or testosterone, school-aged kids look much the same. So unless the pictured boys and girls had identical haircuts and clothing, the 32 âtransgenderâ children labeling a boy or girl picture as âmeâ or ânot meâ would have been identifying with a boy or girl based on stereotyped dress and appearanceâhaircuts, clothing, and the like. How could it be otherwise?
Put another way, if the pictures of the boys and girls did all have the same haircut and clothes, irrespective of biological sex, would the research subjects have been able to identify the sex of the child they identified with? Likely not.
Now, to the question of whether these kids were confused, delayed, or pretending, the authors did show that these kids are not likely to be knowingly pretending to be the opposite sex, nor are they âconfusedâ i.e., they just donât know what they think or feel. But why is this of much significance? What would be the motivation for these children to âmerelyâ self report the âincorrectâ gender, or to âoppositionally reactâ? The fact that these kids are sincere in their convictions is reported by Olson et al as an important finding, but does anyone, including critics of pediatric transition like myself, doubt that dysphoric or trans-identified kids really mean their gender nonconformity?
Further, deliberately âpretendingâ in order to deceive is not the same as conflating fantasy or desire with objective reality–an aspect of normal childhood development which activists, gender specialists, and researchers like these seem never to have heard of. Just because a child sincerely sees him or herself as the opposite sex does not make it true. Child psychologists have known for decades that children’s firmly held beliefs do not always comport with reality.
 Research indicates that children begin to learn the difference between fantasy and reality between the ages of 3 and 5 (University of Texas, 2006).  However, in various contexts, situations, or individual circumstances, children may still have difficulty discerning the difference between fantasy and reality as old as age 8 or 9, and even through age 11 or 12. For some children this tendency may be stronger than with others.
The authors seem not to have thought of the most obvious conclusion: That these kids DO believe they are the opposite sex but that doesnât make it soâespecially since even the implicit measures the authors seem to think are so meaningful are nothing more than identification with gender-stereotyped activities and appearances which they happen to prefer.
By demonstrating that the âtransgenderâ children arenât just being obstinate or dishonest, Olson et al seem to believe that their study indicates (in their words) âtrue identityâ in the children they have labeled “transgender.”
But what is “true identity?” Is it the elusive Holy Grail of inborn, unchangeable gender, something no one has come remotely close to proving, yet is the unquestioned assumption from which all the current medical and psychological and legal decisions about “transgender children” have flowed in the last few years?
That the authors even use the term âtrue identity,” which they themselves admit is unproven, is all we need to show the study is fatally tainted by confirmation bias.
 Confirmation bias, as the term is typically used in the psychological literature, connotes the seeking or interpreting of evidence in ways that are partial to existing beliefs, expectations, or a hypothesis in hand.
Itâs quite clear that the authorsâ âhypothesis in handâ is that there is such a thing as âtrue identity.â Further, they interpret the evidence that âtransgenderâ children feel as strongly about their identity and gender nonconformity as âcisgenderâ children do as somehow confirming this hypothesis. Even though they themselves in their Notes section of the study assert:
- We avoid using common colloquial phrases such as âborn as a boyâ because they suggest that transgender identities are not innate (an unresolved scientific question) and are thus offensive to some individuals.
 On the one hand, because they donât want to be âoffensiveâ to âsome individualsâ (and I think we can guess who they are), Olson et al donât want to âsuggestâ that gender isnât innate (and in fact present their study as evidence that their âtransgenderâ research subjects have a âtrue identity,â). But at the same time, the authors explicitly acknowledge that the question of âinnateâ gender identity is an âunresolved scientific question.”
But while being careful not to offend âsomeâ people, they donât have any trouble splattering the term âcisgenderâ throughout this article, despite the fact that some other individuals find “cis,” wellâoffensive. Certainly Olson et al aren’t living in such a bubble that they are unaware that the label “cisgender” is repugnant to many of us who the transgender community apply it to.
And in point 2 in the Notes, we have a further indication that the authors’ work is riddled with confirmation bias:
2. We use the term âoppositeâ for clarity but acknowledge that gender is not binary.
They âacknowledgeâ that gender is not binary. But as with “innate gender identity,” who has proven that “gender is not binary?” No one. This jargon comes straight from the trans activist lexicon.
In peer-reviewed research, investigators always indicate the limitations and possible flaws in their study. The weaknesses I’ve pointed out in this post are not even marginally addressed by the authors. What limitations do Olson et al concede?
 All of the participants tested here identified and lived life as one gender at the time of assessment, choosing names consistent with that gender and preferring those pronouns as well. Future studies along the spectrum of childhood transgender experiences will be needed to clarify how generalizable these findings are to children who have different degrees of identified gender expression or to those with different life experiences.
Apparently what’s next is seeing whether their study measures can also be used to prove the “true” identities of “gender fluid,” “genderqueer,” and “nonbinary” children. I wonder what exclusion criteria they’ll have in future studies? Hopefully they will be more precise in their definitions of what constitutes gender (non)conformity in their next paper.
In their summary, Olson et al reiterate their key finding that these kids really mean it when they say they prefer the lifestyle of the opposite sex:
In summary, our findings refute the assumption that transgender children are simply confused by the questions at hand, delayed, pretending, or being oppositional. Instead, transgender children show responses that look largely indistinguishable from those of cisgender children, who match transgender childrenâs gender expression on both more- and less-controllable measures. Further, and addressing the broader concern about transgender individualsâ mere existence raised at the outset of this article,the data reported here should serve as evidence that transgender children do indeed exist and that their identity is a deeply held one.
âDo indeed exist.â Of course children who believe they are, or want to be, the opposite sex âexist.â And of course such children are going to exhibit preferences for the appearances and activities of the opposite sex, in a âdeeply heldâ way. But it doesnât follow that those children are somehow innately the opposite sex.
All Olson and colleagues have demonstrated is that some children really, really, really want to be the opposite sex; even to the point of saying they are the opposite sex. They want to look and dress like the opposite sexâa girl, for instance, might want a short haircut and to wear comfortable boysâ clothes. They like playing with children of the opposite sex. And they like doing things that the opposite sex likes to do. In other words, these kids are donât conform to the more typical behaviors of their birth sex. But does it then follow that they should be encouraged and conditioned to believe they are the opposite sex, leading them in the near future to puberty blockers and on to sterilization and surgeries?
If the stakes were not so incredibly high, a study like this could simply be filed away under âstrongly held beliefs and desires of gender nonconforming children.â But given the fact that so many activists and gender specialists are in the business of promoting medical transition, this study should instead be filed under âconfirmation bias rationalizes non-evidence-based medical experimentation on vulnerable children.â What Olson et al have not proven is innate gender identity. All they have shown is that these kids really mean it when they say they are or want to be the opposite sex.
This study, instead of being promoted as a rationale for pediatric transition, should carry no more weight than any of the thousands of media articles trumpeting the unsubstantiated yet continuously promoted idea that children who refuse to conform to gender stereotypesâyes, who really mean it when they say they want to look and play and dress like the opposite sexâare âtransgender.â Like the ones quoted at the beginning of this article. Or the thousands of others that have been published in the last few years. Like this one:
Tom charges about in a Batman costume, brandishing a sword. …Tom loves dressing up. âNormally as a superhero,â Cassie [his mom] says.
âBatman and Superman,â Tom adds. âAnd Wolverine!â He also likes to play cowboys or policemen with his best friend, Charlie. âSometimes we arrest people. Remember when we did it yesterday to the dog?â He grins. âHe wasnât putting the ball down.â He shows me his bedroom. Thereâs his treasured Playmobil pirate ship, his Marvel poster featuring Ironman, Captain America and the Hulk, and his pencil case shaped like a football boot.
When Cassie took three-year-old Tom to the barber for the first time, she wept. âThat was the final thing. If I let him get his hair cut short, that was me accepting he is a boy.â The hairdresser was bemused. âI was crying and I had this little boy with me who had hair down to his arse. She asked him: âHas your mummy never let you get your hair cut?â And he loved it, because she thought he was a boy with long hair.â After that, Tom never got mistaken for a girl, and became much happier.
—Transgender children: âThis is who he is â I have to respect thatâ